Friday 27 December 2013

Happy Birthday 2013

A birthday party is an event to celebrate the aging process one year at a time up to the point when one ceases to live. 

One birthday party has been celebrated down the centuries for more than 2,000 years now. It is the most expensive and elaborate, and involves more than a billion people all over the world - a percentage of who just happen to be caught up in the festivities but not quite acquainted with the celebrant.

Christmas indeed is the biggest birthday party for a baby who was born for one single reason - to give eternal life to the human race. 

Ever since I became a Christian seven years ago, I have found a new and more profound meaning to the birthday of my King and Savior Jesus. 

There is no birth certificate available to prove that December 25 is the exact date that he was born, but that doesn't matter. It is the chance and honor to celebrate Jesus' coming for our salvation that drives me to spend hours of preparation, emptying out my pocket for gifts and food and making sure that the family is together.

The photos below documented how Jesus' birthday party was for us in the year 2013.


this is the mezzanine floor of our building which serves as our living/dining room. The building has 5 floors and is home for a newly wed couple, a young couple with a baby, and my wife and her loving husband and their daughter + granddaughter. My wife's son lives with his fiance in her parents' home a few minutes drive from here.

I'll leave out the description and names of the dishes that we served. all were home-cooked and baked by each family and western cuisine predominated the table.




the only Thai in the pinoy crowd and she belongs to my lucky son


our guests were friends who didn't have immediate families to connect with for the season and in a sense they were 
'adopted' for the noche buena.


a mysterious hand picking on the cherry tomatoes



dessert table


jp and nok


jj and kukie


gifts waiting to be torn open

that's the family


the most beautiful daughter in the whole world


Christmas was for a "Child" born in the manger and still is for a child in our family.


this precious kid had the fun of her life and didn't hold back her joy and pleasure in appreciating each gift that she received.






even to the point of being emotional and teary

... and how did her granddad take this moment? the cam caught him wiping away a tear - damn! hahaha. yeah, this is what Christmas is all about - sharing tears of joy and happiness. 

Happy birthday Jesus!


p.s. we had tequila, games, singing and a lot more activities which photos i intend to display in a different album.

Wednesday 25 December 2013

Buko Pie - how it's done

Buko (coconut) has a way of identifying us islanders of the eastern pacific region. The best thing about it is when it is eaten young - straight from the tree or when it has undergone the delicate process of extracting, cooking and then baking.

This piece was done to document Gray's first attempt on pie baking. We can never tell at this point what the future holds for buko pies with Gray getting into the picture. He may change the way we hold this pastry in esteem forever.


the filling: young coconut, milk, sugar and corn starch
is done first in a sauce pan over the stove. due to the
clutter and concern in perfecting the measurements a photo
of this stage was forgotten. this actually is a chance to make
more room for your imagination to determine how the first-
timer handled the measuring and mixing.

 doing the pastry - pie crust, comes next and this is done
on a wooden table that needs some dusting.

 shortening, eggs, flour, salt, vinegar are prepared
for this stage. be sure that one foot is propped up on a nearby
chair or the pastry won't be perfect.

 then you "cut" the flour into the shortening using a knife.

 "drizzle" the beaten egg into the mixture

 roll out the dough and fit into the pie pan

 add the buko filling

 cover with another rolled out pastry dough and add the trade
mark "G" for Gray

 bake in a preheated oven at 160 degrees celcius for 50 minutes

let the pie cool off, but be sure to eat the "G" monogram before
serving, because it is already brown from cooking and shockingly resembles a fine specimen of crap minus the smell.

 cut up the pie and serve. 

The best thing about this pie is in the eating. So if you please, you may call +6687-340-8078 for orders. delivery is free within 100 meters of the oven.


It RUNS in the family

I have been running all my life and in many instances it was for these reasons: when my dad blew his whistle I had to run home or get a whacking, running away from a charging bull at the ranch behind our house and running in games which was my forte. Serious running only commenced when marathons or fun runs came to our country and certain groups were organized. 

The only run where I made a significant finish - third, was when I was in medical school and for that feat I got a large roasted turkey from the medical society that organized the run.

Fast forward to the most recent decade of my life and I'm pleased and elated to see my family join me in this sport. The most recent addition to the sport are my son and his fiance - Nok, who just did the 10K run in the Bangkok Int'l Half Marathon. 


over the King Rama VIII bridge across the Chao Phraya river




 the wife running on the mean streets of Bangkok on Queen Sirikit's birthday run


the daughter doing the Standard Charter Marathon on the 
sky ramp of Boromarachachonani 


the daughter's bf - JJ, doing the Columbia Trail Masters'

now here are the photos that really tug at my heart. check out the kid with number 172 at the starting line.

 this was at the Columbia Trail Masters Run 

yeah that's my granddaughter putting her heart and soul
into her run

 to her frustration the asthma kicks in and
I have to carry her the rest of the way

running has a funny effect on the hair. it's either your hair lies flat on your head, stands erect or gets blown away.

"against the wind, I'm still running against the wind.
I'm older now, but I'm still running against the wind." 
(Bob Seger)

Monday 25 November 2013

Into the land of gems and poppies

Another year… another mission trip… to fulfill my promise to the marginalized tribes scattered around Southeast Asia. I could make this my full-time calling, but I have to make money to be able to serve, because missionary work requires me to put my resources into the tribes – not to make money from serving them.

This year the target of our mission trip would be a village in the back hills of the Myanmar-Laos-Thailand border. Yeah, that’s right – the Golden Triangle, the exact place where three countries meet.

If you were alive in the 60’s and 70’s you could remember that this place – Golden Triangle, is actually where the narco plants - opium and marijuana were cultivated, processed and marketed. It was also the spot where westerners and locals flocked for that ultimate psychedelic high that these narcotics offered.

Through the years stricter measures were imposed on these activities due to international outcry and yet the trade of narcotics survives up to this day albeit in a smaller and illicit scale.

Here are the photos of the mission trip that a month to prepare, but only 5 hours to execute. 

air nok (bird in thai) that flew me to Chang Rai

the awesome glimmer of the setting sun over 
the Myanmar mountains.

 checked in at Baan Bua homestay for the night

 the following day this bus takes me on the final leg of
my trip to the border.

that's my namesake - Noah. this buddhist ex-soldier of the Myanmar army met me at Mae Sai with his great smile. this was our first meeting after talking to each other a few times over the phone. I would hear his awesome testimony later and how much he loves Jesus and his countrymen. we spent less than 24 hours together but I guess I learned more than a semester's worth of wisdom about missionary work.

the northern end of highway 1 - the blue building, which is the Thai customs and immigrations gate to Myanmar. 

the Nam Ruak river (tributary of the Mekong River) separating 
the two countries

the gate into the land of precious stones, narcotic stuff and
ethnic strife. this country formerly had religious freedom, which was curtailed by the military junta that took over in the early 1960's and transformed Burma into a socialist Myanmar.


 at the immigrations office an officer takes my passport and hands me a temporary entry permit that would expire before the sun sets on the same day.


it had my photo and the same info that my passport held. this would be the legal document that would allow me to shop and tour the country and since we got in at 1 pm we only had about 5 hours to get our business done.

the center rotunda of Tachileik city just across the 
border from Thailand

a common street scene... not much traffic with overloaded
cars bearing unusual cargo

our convoy left the city and followed a dirt road through
numerous checkpoints.

we headed towards the Laos border through the 
wilderness brush onto the back country

 nestled in the remote hills you'll see this small school without a name. a commune of homes was beside this school and I was told that the community was composed of 100% believers. I couldnt help but imagine what these guys had to endure to stay undetected or
tolerated by the regime.

 the pupils seated inside. note the folded arms, which
is their way of showing respect for the visitors.

 you will note that they have enough elbow room

 the whole student body assembled for instructions
on how we were going to conduct our medical clinic

 first station is the checkup

 then Ralf administers the deworming pills and
any medicine that was needed.

then they put on the clothes that the Germans brought

Midway into our activity our escort - a paramilitary officer,
tells us that we have 15 minutes left and that we had to leave for the border and out of the country before the time that we were allowed to stay was over. His order jolted me back to reality and my mind reeled in the thought of how much these people had to endure being dictated on how they should conduct their lives. We hurriedly go through the remaining kids and head back to the border.

 at the border our guide realized that we had still a little time to visit a christian orphanage. These kids ranging from 6 - 17 years live in tight quarters in a rundown wooden house didnt have much to live by but were contented and happy to have foster parents who took care of them.

this is the sign at the orphanage and I ask a Myanmar interpreter at the office to tell me what it meant, but he couldn't 
understand it. It was written in the Burmese alphabet no doubt but he couldn't make head and tail of it.

Time was up and we retrace our steps over the bridge and back to the Thailand side of the border.

we then dig into this delicious dish of frog meat. Thank you Jesus for giving me this opportunity to serve your less fortunate brothers and sisters in this forbidden part of the world. I will forever be your humble servant.

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